Fans Rally Around Johnny Sibilly After Heartfelt Social Media Messages

Johnny Sibilly, best known for his roles in the "Queer as Folk" reboot and the Emmy-nominated series "Hacks", took to Instagram on July 15 to open up about the emotional toll of repeated rejection in his acting career. In a heartfelt Instagram reel, Sibilly appeared visibly emotional as he reflected on more than two decades of navigating the highs and lows of the entertainment industry. The caption read: “20+ years of being an actor and the years of rejection doesn’t get any easier no matter the moments of brightness. Sometimes I don’t wish this feeling on my worst enemy. On to the next I guess.” He added a message of solidarity in his post: “Shoutout to all the actors out there who love it in spite of it all 💕 love y’all” .

The post resonated widely, quickly gaining traction among Sibilly’s followers and fellow members of the LGBTQ+ entertainment community. Superstar Ricky Martin replied with a supportive message: “Do not lose faith big boy! Keep going.” Drag icons Bianca Del Rio and Shea Coulee also chimed in, with Del Rio humorously suggesting, “Wanna be a drag queen? 🥴😑🤣💋,” while Coulee offered heartfelt encouragement: “You are so talented, and sweet, and handsome, and amazing. Thanks for sharing, because more people need to understand that behind the successes they see publicly, there is a lot of private rejection. This business isn’t easy, but you’re a star baby!” .

Actor Drew Droege, another queer performer, added important context about the reality of casting and the emotional resilience required: “Unlike other jobs, there is one person who is selected among dozens of great people who could all do it brilliantly. I’ve been watching lots of tapes for a thing I’m doing and there are so many incredible people who could not have done better. But it goes to one person who may not even be the ‘best’ but fits the puzzle the best, according to a panel of decision makers. It’s brutal and it never gets easier for me either. Love you Johnny. You are a star ❤️” .

Sibilly’s willingness to share his struggles publicly struck a chord not only with other actors but with fans who see themselves reflected in his journey. For many LGBTQ+ people, visibility in the entertainment industry remains both a point of pride and a challenging frontier. By speaking openly about his setbacks, Sibilly contributes to breaking down the stigma surrounding vulnerability and mental health—issues that disproportionately affect LGBTQ+ individuals due to persistent social and professional pressures .

Public displays of vulnerability by high-profile LGBTQ+ figures help foster a sense of community and resilience, especially for younger people navigating their own identities and aspirations. Sibilly’s message joins a growing chorus of queer voices advocating for mental health awareness, self-care, and mutual support in fields where rejection and criticism are an unavoidable part of the process.

The overwhelming response to Sibilly’s post underscores the unique strength and solidarity found within the LGBTQ+ community. Fans left thousands of supportive comments, expressing not only admiration for Sibilly’s talent but also gratitude for his honesty. Many shared their own experiences with rejection, creating a digital space for connection and empathy .

The entertainment industry’s competitive nature often leaves actors—especially those from marginalized backgrounds—facing unique challenges. Sibilly’s career, which includes hosting Logo’s acclaimed talk show "Spill" and working alongside LGBTQ+ luminaries like Orville Peck and Sasha Velour , stands as a testament to his resilience and the importance of creating space for diverse stories and voices.

As Sibilly continues to pursue new projects and inspire others, his latest post serves as a reminder: success is often built on persistence through adversity, and no one is alone in facing self-doubt or disappointment. The LGBTQ+ community’s rallying support for Sibilly is not just about one actor’s journey, but also a celebration of collective perseverance—and the power of showing up for one another, both online and off.